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The HIS&HERS bus just keeps on rolling. On this weeks show DOVER&DOVER presents his infinite wisdom regarding the do’s and dont’s of dating. Dover’s list is very interesting and honestly, so is Tammi’s response. Poor Tammi, has dating in southern California really been that bad? Dover thinks you shouldn’t take a girl to the movies on the first date, Dover also has some issues regarding who pays. It ain’t trickin’ if you got it right? Apparently yes…it is trickin’ even if you have it. So sit back and enjoy and feel free to weigh in with your own dating suggestions, praise, or criticisms of Dover’s list. By the way, that pesky voice with his “own” show drops in on the HIS&HERS cast…why don’t they just lock him out?
you have to have it to trick it off lol…people have become so weak they glorify the most shameful positions…famous pornstar/video hoes..men who KNOW they can get attention any way but paying it..and now these stanz have become the norm or cool lol lol..
if you have to pay for attention..it aint YOU its what your buying…
and the dating scene is non existent cuz folks dont know what dating is
when you date..your NOT exclusive…you dont HAVE to fuck…you dont owe explanations for your phone calls emails etc..dating is about FUN..once drama sets in you stop dating that person..
but what folks now adays call dating is these short DAMAGING relationships where your forcing your hand and it all turns into work and stress…
jsut cuz someone is cute..or smart..or has nice stuff DOESNT mean you have to marry they ass!!
dating is to GET TO KNOW A PERSON in a real setting..not to interview them to be your next ex
once people get back to taking things easy slow and not so serious ..dating will exist again..until then its just folks jumping from one failed relationship to the next..not evaluating the situations nor themselves and confused why its the same result repeated..
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Dover made some good points and held it down for the dudes…The only thing I disagree with was not buying the female a drink if your on a date. Around my way the female would look at you like your crazy!!! LOL..Tam you did a good job too not to leave you out
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I think that whoever pays depends on who invited. I wouldnt expect if a guy invites me out to pay for anything.And if I invite a guy out i will pay. I totally agree about talking about the future because ambition is a turn on for me. But there is a line to be drawn.
Dover is outta his mind with the drinking if he is drinkin he should be willing to buy her a drink too but just as the talkin about the future there should be a limit.
And for shivalry and opening doors when a guy is willing to open the door for me I will open unlock the door for him and if I got time I will reach over and crack the door for him. Everything has to be both ways.
And OHHH My God Dover you just hit my main issue with the dont handcuff! Guys when they get someone that dont be callin all the time and buggin they always think something is up and they be stalkin.
Yall talk about not affordin the date but its a sure sign that a dude aint got no money if he tryin to rent a movie on the first date. I would not go to noones house to be watchin movies on the first date cause that means he aint got no money (Dover!!) and that he might be crazy watch the news. nuff said.
And Tammi its good to see you doin good after high school you look great!
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Great show y’all. I had to comment on the sex on the first date lol. I have done that a couple times and in that situation it’s not always on the guy. Let’s say the guy does call back after, the question is wil the girl answer? After the event has happend she might be thinkin dang did I just do that I am such a slut and might not ever talk to dude again. He might have been the best man u have ever met. Husband material ya know, but bc you had your own insecurities you lossed out.
To be honest sex complicates things in a relationship. If you really like that person and you want things to progress get to know the person first before intercourse otherwise all hell will brake loose. That’s with most relationships now a days.
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